Love

It hurts to see you go, it hurts to see that despite how many times you show them you are right there in front of them, they cant even notice you. Everyone has that experience right? How about those who are just to shy to tell your crush that you like them and are scared to tell them in fear that they might reject you or say that they don't feel the same way? Hurts right? You cant do anything. That joyous butterflies in your stomach feeling when they walk in the room and smile at you, that envious feeling when you see them with someone else that makes them happy. Even in online social media sites like Facebook and twitter, some would post something like "forever alone" or "I'm single because god is busy making the right person for me, and that person would appear sometime in the future". I admire those who got the courage to say that but at the same time get annoyed because some people really don't want to know about your relationship status, its just an AMEN kind of thing when someone agrees and relates. Everyone has that one dream person, and over time that person would either be the same person or another person that caught your interests. PROJECT LOVE: if you're too scared to go on a online dating site there are other options. Love moves in mysterious ways, it starts out from the most littlest things. That important person could be your best friend, that person could also be a former enemy most of a time its a person you might had seen once or twice in your life and feel in love with the moment you saw them sometimes it just so happens that you are used to seeing them you only realized that you liked that person for quite some time now.

Sometimes we have to muster the courage to tell them how we feel, even if it means rejection. But if it does end up to that, don't take it seriously, it just means that they aren't the right person and that there is a right time for that. It just goes to show that you feel in love for the wrong person, but that doesn't mean you cant open doors for a new opportunity! "The person who gets hurts, love a person too much that the person they love isn't worth their love."

So what is this all about? Well it's simple, it's just a little blog about love. If you found it worthless or not I did got your attention to read it until the end right? That curious feeling that makes you wonder until you read that final sentence.

Tips? Sure. If you're like me you probably know by experience that its hard to open up to your crush. Does that mean you have to hide in the shadows forever? Heck No! Get out there, show your burning passion, prove what you are worth. Get that certain someone to make a move, and if not do it yourself.
  - for girls: if you want to attract that hottie why not take a step closer into catching his eye! Here's how: Go out there be as outgoing as possible, guys likes girls with confidence, play sports, join pep rally's (you don't have to be a cheerleader to dance in front of the crowd), but also remember to be yourself. Dress nicely and don't over do it, makeup is nice, but if you know it's not necessary for an occasion don't over do it, yes lipstick and mascara is tempting, but natural beauty is even more appealing for guys (Guy readers: Agree?) I thought so, being nice and showing good manners in front of them is another way to get high marks in your status reports. If you were little miss perfect for example: being exceptional in cooking or being the neighborhoods miss congeniality he'll surely fall in love with you (so get out there an volunteer even if it means saving a dog in a vet or helping an old lady cross the streets) yes that's cute, so what are you waiting for go for it. Don't forget to smile when he is around you, get that eye catching cut smile and puppy eyes do draw him near. He loves your confidence, sometimes guys are shy (Agree?) so if all of that doesn't work then just confront him? who knows he might be shy.
  - for boys: I'm not an expert so its up to you to decide if any of this would help: Girls don't like jerks, some may put up with it but if you don't be careful they wont like you. Girls like guys making their first move, well its traditionally that way, so if you are shy muster up the courage to tell her you like her. Guys who look clean win the high marks, as much as possible be casual. smile, and if you look like the type who'd play with her, its a good time to be serious because you'll never know what you are missing. Being smart is one that girls like, but knowing from experience is even better, you don't have to be Einstein to win her heart. Smell nice, she would want to smell your sweat. Be yourself and act sweet, when I mean act sweet do it for the rest of your life not only when you are asking her out.

of course everyone has their tastes, so there be more in the agenda, some may be excluded in the this list. Just be yourself, have faith and let nature take its course. if its meant to be its meant to be. and if its not, there are many fishes in the ocean. Hope I inspired you to get out there and spread the love. - PEACE :)