Opening up

Kakashi said "if you don't open up to others, they won't open up to you." such an inspiring line since I myself and others who could relate have a hard time to open up with others. Is it because you are scared that people would judge you and think you are weird? Or is it that you are just anti social and you just probably like it that way. There are times when I want to just be by myself, less stress and drama. I'd like a private life and keep my thoughts to myself. Another reason is because sometimes the people you trust the most aren't the people you thought would be reliable. I agree that friends could be there for you but there are people who backstab their friends, yes those people do exist. Trust is easier to loose than gain, agree? Trust others but don't rely on them too much. It's better to think before you spit out all your secrets to someone who'd turn their backs on you in the end. I'm not saying not to trust someone because my original point was "if you wont open up to others they won't open up to you." Sometimes you need people to hear you out, don't shoulder All your problems yourself, because there are people who could really be reliable. If you don't tell them how you feel how would you know how they feel? They could just misunderstand you, and you could misunderstand them. Don't take it at heart though, talk your problems out and who knows maybe there is a solution. The best of people are seldom, hard to find but once you find them, the true them, you'll definitely feel content.

Vengeance

Pein/Nagato once said "if there is justice in vengeance then justice will only breed more vengeance and trigger an endless cycle of hatred." in easier terms, if perhaps you killed someone, that persons loved one would take revenge and kill that person, the person who was killed has a relative who'd be angry and take vengeance by killing that persons family member. It goes on and on and it would never stop. I could also relate this to a Korean drama I watched long time ago, "City Hunter" a son whose father was killed and so he is seeking vengeance for those who had wronged him. He also agreed that if he killed the person it would trigger yet another endless bloody cycle. No one is perfect, everyone mistakes and everyone is prone to hatred at some point of their lives, revenge isn't avoidable, even when we are young we make fun of it. "an eye for an eye" you pinch me I pinch you harder, you get mad and pinch me harder and etc. it's better to let it go just to keep the peace. I really don't like seeking vengeance, and I do not wish others would seek it. I am a justice advocate do I also agree that justice is served but not through vengeance because there are other ways to solve the problem without hurting someone right?

Pain

Pein/Nagato once said "out of love sacrifice is born, hate is born and we are able to know pain." in order to make the person you love happy you make sacrifices, when you guys break up or perhaps that person dies or moves away, you feel hatred and regret. Because of this you feel pain, you experience the pain of feeling left, the pain of having someone dear leave you. such a strong quote, don't you agree that these factors actually works together? It's hard to believe that the person you love the most in the end leaves you and let's you experience pain. But this blog isn't about hatred, I just wanted to twist it up a little and also I just wanted to add it since it was a good quotation (all rights reserved to Anime :3)